Creative flow interference

Have you ever had a creative thought pop into your mind, only for it to vanish when you try to share it with someone, and they start speaking at the same time? The frustration and disheartenment that follow can make you withdraw, trying in vain to recapture the thought. This is a common example of creative flow interference in adults.

As adults, it can be challenging to watch children scribble outside the lines of a coloring sheet or place googly eyes where the nose is supposed to go. Our natural instinct is often to step in and correct them, guiding them to do it the "right" way. However, it’s crucial to remember that these moments are essential milestones in a child's development. They allow kids to explore trial and error, understand cause and effect, and develop fine motor skills.

When we interfere with their creative flow, our intention might be to encourage creativity by demonstrating the "correct" approach. Instead, we risk creating doubt in their abilities and undermining their confidence. Over time, this can lead to a child who depends heavily on adults for guidance rather than feeling empowered to create independently. Creative flow is a natural process for everyone, but trusting our children and the stage they’re at is key to nurturing it.

Instead of correcting, try sitting with your child and engaging in the activity alongside them. Demonstrating without interrupting their process is far more effective. Use positive language to encourage them. For instance, when you switch colors, they’ll learn they can do the same. When you colour inside the lines, they’ll observe how you control the crayon to achieve precision. The key is to model behaviours without physically intervening or disrupting their creative flow. Trust your child, their instincts, and their unique journey in creativity.

Giving back in Bali: A life-Changing experience.

Last July, I embarked on a journey to Bali that profoundly changed my perspective on life. For a month, I immersed myself in the vibrant culture and breathtaking landscapes of the incredible island. During one of those weeks, I had the privilege of giving back to the Balinese community by spending time with some of the most inspiring children I’ve ever met.

The community I visited was about a five-hour drive from busy Kuta. It was a remote and impoverished area, where families lived in fragile shacks that seemed unlikely to withstand heavy rain. As I drove through this village, I felt a wave of emotion that’s hard to put into words. It wasn’t just the stark contrast to the comfort and security of my life back home, it was the realisation that I had a unique opportunity to bring joy and make a lasting impact on these beautiful, resilient lives.

Despite their circumstances, the children radiated happiness. Their bright smiles and sparkling eyes were a testament to their incredible spirit. They had so little, yet they exuded an infectious joy that left an indelible mark on my heart.

After settling in and adjusting to the cultural differences, I began teaching my first English class. To say it was a humbling experience would be an understatement. The enthusiasm and passion these children brought to learning were unmatched. Their laughter echoed through the room, filling it with a kind of energy that’s impossible to forget. Every moment from their eager questions to their contagious belly laughs—was a reminder of how meaningful and fulfilling connection can be.

Looking back, my time with these children wasn’t just about teaching them English. It was about sharing love, hope, and humanity in its purest form. The memories of their smiles, laughter, and excitement will stay with me forever.

This experience reminded me that giving back isn’t about how much you have to offer—it’s about the intention behind your actions. Sometimes, a little effort can create a ripple effect of positivity that lasts a lifetime.

If you ever find yourself in a position to give back, especially while traveling, I encourage you to take that leap. You might just find that the lives you touch will end up touching yours even more profoundly.